Since we mentioned him, here's my dog with his collection of decapitated heads I found under the sofa. |
The members all seemed to be friends outside of the book club as well ("So-and-so isn't coming today, she told me last night at cards that she wasn't going to make it...") so the atmosphere was very relaxed. It wasn't surprising that the conversation strayed away from the books on occasion. In this sort of situation, the book club could have seemed clique-y, but they were very welcoming. Maybe that's because there were so few of us, but I was asked to come back. Neither member dominated the conversation, and everyone was careful not to talk over anyone. One lady told me she actually worried about the club when the retired reading specialist joined, because she thought the woman would take it too seriously.
Bookmark with their schedule detailed |
Eventually the discussion turned to recommendations of other unrelated books and movies/shows. For example, I was asked if I had read All the Light We Cannot See and what my opinion of it was. Then there was discussion on 12 Years a Slave, Love Actually, and another movie I can't remember that a lady had just recently watched. Then it turned to the surprise birthday party they had all attended last weekend. ...And then somehow got into their past love lives and current relationships of relatives. After about twenty to twenty-five minutes of this, the leader decided to wrap up the meeting with some discussion about next month. Everyone was to read a book by Margaret Atwood, and the leader had brought up a cart of all the available Atwood material, and let us know what was available at other branches or to be placed on hold. One member was concerned that she wouldn't find anything to enjoy, as Atwood slants toward dystopia.
Here are pictures of the handout given to each member. It features a review from NPR on Atwood's latest and the second sheet is a full bibliography of her works.
This book club really just felt like a social thing, a group of friends getting together for lunch (but minus the food). There wasn't much emphasis placed on the reading(s) at all. To be fair, there were only four of us (and I hadn't read anything) and the nature of the material also meant that discussion could easily stray from being specifically focused on Kenneth Davis to just over American history in general. The book-focused discussion really only lasted perhaps 30 minutes of the hour and a half the club met. How would the discussion go if everyone were to read the same book? (If you enlarge the above image of the bookmark, you'll see that only one month actually requires members to read the same book.) In that situation, the librarian might have tried to bring more structure to the group with prepared discussion questions. But then again, I was specifically told that a member preferred the socialization. Perhaps more structure, while making it a more effective book club, would have made it less enjoyable for the membership. While I don't feel any urge to attend another meeting, I do wonder about going back and speaking with that librarian, if she feels this to be a challenge--balancing members' casual, comfortable expectations with structured discussion and reading selections that push boundaries.
For the record, your dog is adorable! :-)
ReplyDeleteI also had a small group of retirees due to the weather (spitting snow and cold). I think a book club is a great way to meet with others that have the same passion (reading) as you do.
ReplyDeleteOh and like Mandy said, your dog is adorable.
Interesting, I never heard of a book club that read similar books, not all the same title. Unique idea, and a great way to find personal reading material!
ReplyDeleteInteresting, I never heard of a book club that read similar books, not all the same title. Unique idea, and a great way to find personal reading material!
ReplyDeleteInteresting, I never heard of a book club that read similar books, not all the same title. Unique idea, and a great way to find personal reading material!
ReplyDeleteI initially liked the idea too, because it gives the members more of a chance to find something that fits them, even if they're being given a brand new author. But then I wondered how that affected the discussion, its ability to stay focused. It's a fun idea to experiment with though!
DeleteYour dog is very cute! I don't know if you mentioned where the book club meets, but it sounds interesting. I like that they used bookmarks for their schedule.
ReplyDeleteYour dog is very cute! I don't know if you mentioned where the book club meets, but it sounds interesting. I like that they used bookmarks for their schedule.
ReplyDeleteI didn't say, since I assumed we were supposed to treat this like the RA secret shopper...give the library and librarian(s) some anonymity. But yes, I was impressed with the handouts!
DeleteSounds like a lot of information or topics were discussed. Books clubs are a great way to socialize but I think if you join a book club it's best to try to stay on topic (about the book). I know it's hard to do once a different subject comes up which could lead to another subject.
ReplyDeleteToo funny, your dog has a collection of heads hid under the couch :)
Tenisha M.